How does one succeed in life?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

How should I go about convincing my mother that my foreign online boyfriend isn't out to get my holes or scam me?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Ask yourself:

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Do married men know when their wives are having affairs?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

When gallery photos are deleted at the same time, why are Google photos also deleted?

Procrastinates a lot.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Does not procrastinate.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

That's it for today.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

What I need from you?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

How do I deal with my annoying little kids?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Do not set goals—set systems.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Do humans know everything they need to know?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Living to your full potential is a goal.